Writer • Intimacy Researcher • Human Design Analyst • Vedic Astrologer • Gene Keys Guide • Musician

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that arrives somewhere in the middle of a life.
Not burnout, exactly. More like the quiet recognition that the structures you built — the relationships, the identity, the way you learned to be in the world — were built for someone else’s comfort more than your own truth.

Uranus Opposition. Chiron Return.
Astrology has names for this threshold.
So does the body, in its own language.

I know this territory from the inside. Not as a framework I studied, but as a life I lived — a 23-year relationship that ended in betrayal, a family system that never quite had room for who I actually was, and the long, uncomfortable work of finding out what remains when everything you organized yourself around falls away.

What remains, I discovered, is the relationship with yourself. And that relationship — honest, unperformed, sometimes deeply inconvenient — turns out to be the foundation for every other kind of intimacy.

Human Design, Gene Keys, and astrology were the lenses that helped me see what I was living. Not as doctrine, not as personality typing, not as a map that tells you who you are, but as tools for recognizing recurring patterns, understanding life cycles, and seeing the thread of purpose running through even the most disorienting passages.

I work with people who are at or past that threshold. People in whom life has already begun its reorganization, whether they named it that or not.

I don’t offer programs or packages. I work from recognition: when my writing or presence lands in a way that signals genuine readiness for this kind of depth, a conversation becomes possible.

Twenty years of training in psychology, coaching, contemplative and esoteric systems — including Gene Keys, Human Design, and (Vedic) astrology — grounded in lived experience. If you’d like to know more about my background, feel free to reach out.

If something here resonates, I’d love to hear from you.
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Languages: English, Nederlands.