Certified Human Design Professional • Relationship Therapist • Gene Keys Guide • Vedic Astrologer

There’s a particular kind of exhaustion that arrives somewhere in the middle of a life. Not burnout, exactly, more the quiet recognition that the structures you built around yourself — the relationships, the identity, the way you learned to be in the world — were built for someone else’s comfort more than your own truth.

I know this territory from the inside, not as a framework I studied first and then applied, but the other way around: a 23-year relationship that ended in betrayal, a family system that never quite had room for who I actually was, and the long, uncomfortable work of finding out what remains when everything you’d organized yourself around falls away.

What remains, I discovered, is the relationship with yourself. Honest, unperformed, sometimes deeply inconvenient — and it turns out to be the foundation underneath every other kind of intimacy: with a partner, with friends, with the parts of yourself you spent years managing instead of meeting.

That’s the work I do with people now, through two doors. As a therapist — trained in mindfulness-based cognitive therapy, grief counseling, relationship and life coaching — I sit with individuals and couples doing this work directly: unlearning old patterns, meeting the grief underneath them, and building a relationship with yourself sturdy enough to hold real intimacy with someone else. And for people already fluent in Human Design, I offer the same depth through a different door: 7+ years inside this system taught me the map was never the point. The self-intimacy underneath it was. I bring people back to that, past the keynotes and the mechanics, toward what the system was always quietly pointing at.

If you’d like to know more about my background, feel free to reach out.